๐๐How to Cope with Difficult Family Members๐๐๐
Navigating family life and relationships can sometimes feel like walking on a minefield with how complicated they seemingly are. Do you have that one family member who just likes to make everything more difficult than it needs to be? Here are some helpful tips on how to cope with them:
๐Donโt Try to Change Themย ๐
You may want to try to change this family member, but itโll likely be wasted effort. Accept them for how they are and live in the hope that they become more easily manageable in the future. If you keep trying to help them be better, your efforts will likely be unappreciated.
๐Notice Triggers and Patternsย ๐
Sometimes, people get triggered by certain topics or conversations, learning what triggers the difficult family member can help you navigate through a conversation, avoiding anything that may make them agitated.
๐Speak Calmly, but Directlyย ๐
Whilst it’s important to stay true to yourself and your values, remember to stay grounded and calm when talking to the family member, you may disagree with something they say, but let them know in a relaxed and non-confronting way instead of outright saying they are wrong.
๐Itโs Not Personalย ๐
Usually with difficult family members, what they say or how they act to you isnโt personal. Accepting that fact can minimise the effect their words have on you and allows you to keep calm during arguments or heated discussions.
๐Remember Your Well-Beingย ๐
Although I have told you some coping mechanisms for difficult family members, remember your well-being takes priority. If the family member is becoming too toxic for your health, it may be worth distancing yourself whilst you recuperate.
๐๐๐Sometimes difficult family members canโt be avoided, but remember these tips and you may find your next interaction a lot easier!
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